are we grateful enough?

Assalamualaikum! hey hey readers!

how was your day today? is it good? everything follow according to your plan? if it does, good for you but if it don't, don't be upset because sometimes things just don't go as planned. its normal. yeahh i know how you feel because me myself sangat tak suka when things doesn't work out the way it should be. but look on the bright side, when it happend it surely show us that tak semua benda yang kita rencana kan akan berjalan lancar and mengingatkan kita bahawa kita hanya insan yang kerdil disisi-NYA. chill ok? :)

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hmm im sure most of people agree that being grateful is important if we want a positive and happy life. being grateful makes us see the bright side of life that eventually turns us into positive people. agree? hmm but sometimes easy said than done right? cakap je grateful tapi hati tak pun. betul ak? so are we grateful enough for what we have? yes it is a natural human instinct to always want more and always don't take a step back to appreciate what we already have. because human tend to forget and often look at what we don't have instead of what we have and end up complaining rather than grateful. my mum always remind me that always compare yourself with people who are unfortunate than us because it will make us realize how lucky we are and be grateful for what we have in front of us now. don't take things and people around you for granted because we may not know how long they will be with us. 

yea adakalanya kita akan terasa down dengan life kita dan merungut, like you don't get what you want, balik rumah parents asik membebel, kita tak kaya, tak dapat kereta or motor mewah dari parents macam orang lain, kita tak cantik seperti superstar, tak dapat makan pizza, spaghetti sebab mak asik masak ayam ikan je and many more. but before you complaining you should think that alhamdullilah la we can still hear our parents membebel and the fact that we still have parents compared to orphaned child, walaupun kita tak kaya but still kita tak merempat tidur ditepi jalan, walaupun tak dapat kereta or motor mewah kita masih mempunyai kenderaan untuk begerak compared to orang yang berjalan kaki untuk ke sana ke mari, we can consider ourself is beautiful compared to someone yang kurang upaya and walaupun tak dapat makan mewah kita tak kebulur seperti orang yang kurang bernasib baik. 


there is always something for us to be grateful. can you imagine losing some of things that you take for granted example rumah, your ability to hear or to see, ability to walk, your family or your closefriends or perhaps anything that currently gives you comfort in life? masyaallah. nauzubillahiminzaliq. bukan anda sahaja, saya pun pernah berada dalam situasi sebegitu. now i regret it HUHU!

hmmm for the past one week until today i have been tutoring my brother and my sister for their studies. since alia a bit lemah dalam subject math, i found myself struggle to make her understand and try really hard to make her love this subject lagi lagi bila dia sangat tak suka subject math ni. fuhh. and i must say that i was very upset with her attitude sebab tak de effort langsung nak belajar walaupun dia tau dia lemah dalam subject tu. she is always trying to escape from study math. ada je alasan yang diberi. -.-" so i was mad and sometimes i felt like erghh susah betul la ada adik macam nie. tak nak dengar cakap suka buat hal and so on. but then i realized i should be thankful to allah that alia only escape from study math and bukan lari dari rumah. and i am suppose to be grateful that alia masih lagi under control berbanding teenagers at her age yang tak boleh di control oleh ibu bapa mereka, yang pergi buat benda bukan2 and beperangai tidak senonoh.

ALHAMDULLILAH! fuhhh. i still consider myself lucky. we love you alia! please notice that!

so lets make a new change. be grateful. try to focus on what's good in your life not what's bad. Everyday take a few minutes to think about all the great things that you have in your life. Be grateful for having a roof over your head, be grateful for having food on your table, be grateful for your family, partner and friends. by doing this insyaallah you will start to appreciate the things even it smallest of things in your life. i challenge you to list 5 things in your life that you be grateful of. be happy and stay positive okayh? ohh yaa when depressing thoughts seem to get you down put a smile on your face and thank that you’re alive and still around :) 

Be thankful for what you have, you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never ever have enough.

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