Birth Order Trait :)

Assalamualaikum! hye everyone!


The 'present' given for this week is Birth Trait Order.haha.


This is the fact that i get from http://www.thecutekid.com about the birth trait order. it is interesting but i'm not 100% agree wit it. haha.

1.first child

• natural leader
• high achiever
• organized
• on-time
• know-it-all
• BOSSY.haha
• responsible
• adult-pleaser but sometimes they can be adult-biggest-problem.haha.
• obeys the rules

2. Middle child

• flexible. :)
• easy-going :)
• social.hmm...maybe...
• peacemakers :)
• independent.exactly!haha
• secretive. :)
• may feel life is unfair.haha.??
• strong negotiator
• generous. :)

3. last child

• risk-taker
• outgoing
• creative
• self-centered
• financially irresponsible
• competitive
• bored easily
• likes to pampered..so true!haha
• sense of humor

4. only child

• close to parents
• self-control
• leader
• mature
• dependable
• demanding
• unforgiving
• private
• sensitive

From my point of view, we're not supposedly born with traits. Normally people will expect the first child is more responsible and obeys the rule but due to my experienced, they are the one that cause problem and irresponsible. Sometimes, the last child can be more responsible and close with their parents.

So as a middle child, we are not agree with the birth order trait. haha. It is not necessary the behavior of the child depends on the birth order trait. The way their parents teach their child is more important. Usually the younger one will follow the oldest action. :)

with love,

ryisnas